ethical aesthetic or religiously in love?

In class, when talking about a girl and boy who could not be together, the question was asked what stage in life would the two lovers be in? The aesthetic would realize there are more fish in the sea, the ethical would love the other but accept the fact that the two could not be together and the religious would believe that with god all things are possible and they would be together. But what would happen if one was aesthetic and the other was religious? Would there be a point where the religious would give up or would the aesthetic realize the hurt their causing?