Corporeal?

For me, I always put God in some kind of form or figure. Not necessarily to make God corporeal, but just so I can feel as though I am relating to something tangible. It is hard to think of God via negative sometimes. People have always put God into some category (if that makes since). For example, saying or writing “he” when referring to God specifics God is a male. If God is not corporeal how can we classify God has “he”. That would be insinuating gender and insinuating God being body. The next question that would probably be raised would be referring to God as the father. In our society males are fathers. It is so hard sometimes to know God is not corporeal, but yet we still refer to God in some bodily image.